Breaking the cycle: Protecting survivors, strengthening families
Behind closed doors, domestic violence and child abuse often unfold side by side, feeding off the same roots of fear and control.
During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we’re reminded that protecting survivors means protecting families as a whole. When we support survivors of domestic violence, we safeguard the health and stability of entire households.
Violence in the home fractures more than just individual safety — it erodes the sense of security and trust that families need to thrive. By connecting survivors with advocacy, shelter and trauma-informed services, communities can help rebuild that foundation of safety and healing. Studies show that when survivor-centered programs are integrated into local systems, they not only reduce future violence but also strengthen family stability and community well-being.
Children who witness domestic violence often carry invisible wounds that can shape their emotional, behavioral and physical well-being. In the United States alone, an estimated 15 million children live in homes where intimate partner violence occurs each year. Exposure to domestic violence is linked to higher rates of anxiety, depression, aggression and difficulties forming healthy relationships. Research also shows that 30–60% of families experiencing domestic violence also face child abuse, underscoring how deeply connected these forms of harm are.
Exposure to violence can normalize harmful patterns of control and aggression, perpetuating abuse across generations. Generational trauma shapes how children interpret love, safety and conflict — often influencing their own relationships as adults. Yet, this cycle can be broken. Early intervention, access to trauma-informed care and community education are powerful tools for prevention. By raising awareness and working together to provide safe, nurturing environments, we can help families heal and grow stronger. Through awareness, prevention and collective action, we can replace fear with resilience and ensure that every family has the opportunity to thrive in safety and peace.
(Savannah Anders is the Executive Director of Kare House)