At age 55, Buddy Melton decided to make a major change in his life, which resulted in his recent departure from Haywood County bluegrass juggernaut Balsam Range.ย
โIt feels weird. Itโs been something Iโve put a lot of effort into. And I didnโt think Iโd necessarily be the one [to leave],โ Melton said. โI thought I might be the last one standing. But, life changes, things happen as you go along and you refocus.โ
Since its inception in 2007, Balsam Range has become one of the most popular and decorated acts in modern bluegrass music, including the following International Bluegrass Music Association (IBMA) honors: โEntertainer of the Yearโ (2014, 2018), โAlbum of the Yearโ (2013, 2017), โSong of the Yearโ (2011, 2015) and โVocal Group of the Yearโ (2014, 2015), with Melton also named โMale Vocalist of the Yearโ (2014, 2018).
And though Melton and his former bandmates are parting on friendly terms, he felt deep within himself that it was time to step aside. Beyond an unrelenting touring schedule for the better part of two decades, Melton also runs a 250-acre farm and is a full-time engineer for a private regional firm.
โI donโt make changes quickly and Iโm trying to decide whatโs best for me moving forward. Eighteen years is a long time for anything, particularly in the music business. Iโm so very proud of that. Itโs emotional,โ Melton said. โLike anything you leave behind, you spend some time questioning the decision. Then, you look forward and you start diving into other opportunities, start thinking, opening your mind to other possibilities and what you want to do with your time. And thatโs exciting.โ
In an exclusive interview with The Smoky Mountain News, Melton reflects on his tenure with a powerhouse band that was formed by happenstance during a casual pickinโ-n-grinninโ session in a small Canton kitchen and what role music will now play in his life, onstage and off.
Smoky Mountain News: Obviously people change, bands change and life continues on. But, why did you feel this was the time to bow out?
Buddy Melton:ย Iโve been talking with the guys about this for a while. For years and years, Iโve had a full-time job and Balsam Range turned into basically a full-time music career. We were out every weekend, constantly touring, playing all the major festivals. We were doing it hard, working it hard and did that for a long, long time. And you just keep going with it.
Then, when COVID hit, we were off the road for over a year and a half with no live shows. We stayed active, recording and doing some virtual things, but it changed the lifestyle for the first time ever. I was home and able to do other things and slowed down the pace of life. When we started back, it just never did feel the same, honestly.
You [again] start missing the opportunities to do other things with family and friends. So, you start questioning yourself, โWhy are you burning the candle at both ends?โ
[During COVID], I was doing a lot more recording, and I loved being home recording, just being more artistic and the time to be more creative. When youโre on the road, itโs not always creative โ it turns into just a hassle. I still love playing live and always will.
SMN: And questioning also, โIs the sacrifice worth it?โ
BM: Yeah. And I wouldnโt change anything at that level [of performing]. To be great at it and to really get the maximum, you have to sacrifice something. No matter what the career path is, youโre sacrificing something else. And everybody sacrifices. Not just the guys in the van traveling to the show, the family sacrifice, the kids sacrifice time. Thereโs always sacrifices to be made on both sides of the family equation.
But, I wouldnโt change it. I mean, without those sacrifices, without that hard work, we wouldโve never achieved what we achieved. And Iโm so proud of that. Weโve had such a major impact on peopleโs life through the music and positive songs, getting to play shows I never thought Iโd ever play.
And so, what else is there to do? Thereโs always something else to do, but I just feel like weโve achieved a lot. And there was a lot of sacrifice to make that happen. I donโt regret it. But, there comes a time when you have to start realizing that to do other things, youโre going to have to sacrifice being a part of the band โ you just canโt do everything.
SMN: What role will music play in your life now? I would surmise youโre probably getting some phone calls now from other musicians to play here and there.
BM: Iโve gotten quite a bit [of phone calls] for both live and recording music over the last few weeks. Music has always been a part of who I am and always will be. [Singer-songwriter] Milan Miller and I have [Melton & Miller]. Weโve been doing our own music going back over 30 years. I have been collaborating. Creating music will never change. Weโve got a bunch of projects in the works for other people and ourselves.
The whole commitment level to this decision is staying true to yourself. Itโs about balance. This lifestyle change is to be able to do other things and I need to protect that. Iโll probably [play a handful of] really great events through the year, then the rest of the time stay home, create music, go fishing, hiking and camping โ things that I have not always been able to do.
SMN: When you think about that journey of 18 years with Balsam Range, whatโs been your biggest takeaway of that chapter of your life?
BM:ย Itโs crazy to think back on. And [the band] wasnโt intended. Like a lot of things, the best things happen when you least expect it, when youโre not looking for it. And the next thing you know, you realize that you got to be part of something incredible and special that I guess supposed to happen.
And I canโt put it into words how special it feels to look back on that and know that we represented Haywood County. We were all from Haywood County and we took our heritage around the world. We were so proud and our music had that regional vibe about it. And every year, itโs kept growing.
But, most importantly, [itโs] the impact that weโve had on peopleโs lives. Music is such a powerful thing, that it reaches people in ways that spoken word canโt always get to them. A song can touch the heart a lot quicker. So many people have reached out about how our music got them through some difficult times and it meant so much to them โ thatโs probably the most meaningful thing for me.
To know that I had some positive impact with the gifts that I was given and using your talents. We all have talents and theyโre all different. When youโre using them properly, it feels like youโre doing things for the right reason when youโre using your talents for the positive of other people โ thatโs what Iโm most proud of.
